Warning, this is advanced voodoo and not very secure.
You
Chat with:
 
Connect to the person identifying themselves as:
with the additional contact information:
I call this person:
Message to send with this request:
A person identifying themselves as:
using server at
with the additional contact information:
would like to establish a connection with you. They sent along this message with the request:
Yes, I want to connect with them, and...
I call this person:
Not sure right now, I'll want to look at this again in the future.
No, I don't want to connect with them and I NEVER want to see this request again, so I...